Have you ever been ghosted by/ghosted someone?

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  1. forgotten in space

    forgotten in space Champion Super Mod

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    As in, completely cut off communication with someone (normally someone you're dating or a friend) without notice, completely out of the blue start pretending the person doesn't exist?


    I don't think I could ever do it. Shit's rude. :O
    Unless of course it's someone leaving a violent relationship or something like that, then it's ok :O

    as for me, I kinda was ghosted once. I hooked up with a classmate first year of university, then she stopped going to classes altogether so after a while I dropped by her house (she lived with her mom) and no-one else lived there anymore. So, I never saw her again.
    I guess she didn't think we were serious enough for us to talk about life in general and stuff like moving away :tard2:

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    beer T&G Elite Moderator

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    no.

    I don't get why anyone would do that either, why not just tell them to their face what it is and move on ? unless, like you said, it's a weird violent psychotic relationship or something.

    :shrug:
     
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    Sheolite T&G Addict Registered Member

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    I have totally ghosted women before but that's when they don't get the fact that I don't want anything to do with them or don't want them around anymore and they totally get psycho on me.
     
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    It happened to me once, back in the day. :o The guy was going trough a rough path and i kinda stood by for 1 year and 1/2 (something like that) and after the rough path was gone aka. he passed his medical residency after a week or so...he left town and that was it. Just like that. I found out from someone else that he left town.
    Eventually after a good while he called on my birthday telling me stories about ...life. It was too late and i couldn't be more happy because in between i met my husband. :)

    I never did it to someone. All i remember from when i went trough it was that i didn't care we broke up, i just needed to have a conversation so i could easier go on - move forward. :|
     
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    gypsy_tears T&G Master Registered Member

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    Never.

    But I once txt messaged my girlfriend,sitting across the table from me in the pub, by mistake, that I was about to break up with her.... :vangaal:
     
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    You mean like a joke where you weren't intending to press send?

    Or you had another lover and sent your text to the wrong girl? :van:
     
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    gypsy_tears T&G Master Registered Member

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    Nah, my mate txt-ed me asking if I broke up with her yet :yao:

    So I replied something like : Not Yet, I'm gonna break it off now, just waiting for the right moment [​IMG]
     
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    gypsy_tears T&G Master Registered Member

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    and what a moment that was [​IMG]
     

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